Saturday, April 21, 2012

Baby Steps

If you read my previous post, I'm sure you recognize that the initial anger and hurt over the situation I find myself in has started to fade, and I'm seeing exactly what I've been doing this whole time.
What a fool I've been, rampaging about like a child, spouting about my feelings without regard for anyone else's.
Well, it's time for me to get my act back in gear. The first step was the previous post, something of an apology if you will. The second step is the following:
So, as of late two older and wiser individuals (when compared to myself; they are not "old" per say) have brought to my attention the possibility of people "taking sides" over how my recent relationship ended. This is an understandable worry, as I have considered the possibility of this happening a few times, but was never really spurred to do anything about it until now.
Frankly, I can't allow anything like that to happen. Look, this sort of thing is between only myself and the other party involved. I know that a lot of my recent posts have been about my emotions over the situation, but that's just it; they are my emotions, not yours. So please don't be swayed to take anyone's side on the matter. One of the few things that frustrate me in life is when someone gets involved in another group of people's issue and end up losing friends because of it, so I will do my all to prevent anything like that from happening now.

As my best friend once told me, baby steps, so that's what I'll do now. Hopefully that will be enough.

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